Finding that original spark of love that brought you and your partner together in the first place

Relationships can bring us the greatest love and the greatest suffering.

Most of us have entered into relationships without ever learning how to communicate deeply and authentically. Even though we feel stress and conflict at times, we still have the dream that we can love more fully, talk more openly and find the original spark of love that brought you and your partner together in the first place.

With self-awareness, and with better communication strategies, you can become more kind, more joyful, and more forgiving. You can both let go of bad habits that create distance. And then, you will feel more love, more vitality, more acceptance, and more ease.

It’s not your fault that you never learned these key skills. You don’t get taught them in schools or churches. With study and attention, you can have the kind of emotional connection you long for.

As a couples counselor and marriage therapist, I can help you achieve these goals through my private couples counseling, online classes or book.

My deeper mission is to help couples like you find the joy and vitality that is missing. Thousands of couples have learned the simple program of skills and tools that are necessary for you to create the intimacy and connection you desire.